tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post115004190719512055..comments2023-10-29T16:35:05.254+01:00Comments on Violet...: Libyan Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14186336309612490755noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1151098321007634932006-06-23T23:32:00.000+02:002006-06-23T23:32:00.000+02:00If it was not for aggressive women I would have ne...If it was not for aggressive women I would have never of had any girlfriends!<BR/><BR/>I met my current relationship in a crowded bar. Every guy, I mean EVERY guy was trying to pick her up. She completely ignored every one of them. Later she approached me instead. <BR/><BR/>Days later, she told me that I interested her because she doesn't like guys who "look like they have lots of sex"! I'm not really sure if that was a compliment or what!<BR/><BR/>At the time she also thought I was not interested in her, which made her curious about me.ChrisinMBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462562074295511462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150931198091904112006-06-22T01:06:00.000+02:002006-06-22T01:06:00.000+02:00Hi Leilouta , you are so right . When I was at un...Hi Leilouta , you are so right . When I was at university, I did my research at one particular library. Even had my favourite corner . I noticed the sme guy studying there for some days. My crush wsa getting bigger so one day I came up this bright idea to act the damzel in distress and ask his help on something I was reading What a lame excuse. Well he was so surprised when I walked up to him and spoke and introduced myself. After his initial shock he was beaming. Two dates later he left me , but guess why ? because he wanted a lover and mistress he just realised that even though I was the one to hit on him he found that I was so sweet it was disgusting as I made him feel remorseful.<BR/><BR/>Anonymous 12.10 pm, if I've read your story 6 months ago I would say try to find out why he did this.But now my advice is , he is not even worth your thoughts.<BR/><BR/>Programmer Craig I tend to echo your thought here , he must have liked her ... curious as to what happened?Libyan Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14186336309612490755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150860943766845612006-06-21T05:35:00.000+02:002006-06-21T05:35:00.000+02:00Previous anon, thanks for sharing that story. I do...Previous anon, thanks for sharing that story. I do think he was interested in you. Guys don't chat for 4 hours with somebody they aren't interested in, in my experience :)<BR/><BR/>Maybe he had second thoughts for some reason? It's his loss though, as you said. He owed you an explanation, though, at the least.programmer craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17566950406349754166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150737130477773802006-06-19T19:12:00.000+02:002006-06-19T19:12:00.000+02:00Here 's my story . I was enjoying a cup of coffee ...Here 's my story . I was enjoying a cup of coffee and there was an empty chair at my table , this guy comes over to sit but sees my bag and thinks it's occupied. I see he's a hunk so I tell him it's vacant and he joins me at the table. A few minutes later we are hitting it off, and we spend 4 hrs in that little coffee shop. When we leave we exchange email addresses and contact numbers. He goes back to his country and texts me, and I text back. 4 emails later, I have an accident and can't read my mail or get in touch for a few days. Then when I do, I find a letter from him saying to 'forget the friendship as it looks you are not interested and not replying to my letters'. ( At least he said he was not going to write anymore). I reply and explain what happened and he writes back - a nice letter apologising for his mmisunderstanding and says he's going for a few days to stay with his family for their anniversary or something . So I send congratulations and updates and a text message. Well guess what? I never get any letters after that. I wait two weeks, as my friends told me guys like women who play hard to get thenI emailed him and asked what happened ? just like he did with me ... Still no reply till today.I will not bother about the guy anymore , his loss. But he seems like your typical men who disapears ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150469686223714702006-06-16T16:54:00.000+02:002006-06-16T16:54:00.000+02:00A woman asking a man out in Tunisia is a no no :)A woman asking a man out in Tunisia is a no no :)Leiloutahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11423130301990752458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150451606686055132006-06-16T11:53:00.000+02:002006-06-16T11:53:00.000+02:00Hi Programmer Craig and Chris in Manitoba , good t...Hi Programmer Craig and Chris in Manitoba , good to see you guys here! Well I would not balk at asking a man out :) however I still have my cavewoman mentality and would rather he asks me out ....BUT a Libyan man ? forget it shy or not shy if a woman asks him out she will be releged to mistress/ girlfriend material not wife and fiancee...I know I know it is very hypocritical :(<BR/><BR/><BR/>PS we still need to hear by some women and Libyan men perhaps...Libyan Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14186336309612490755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150427189307762612006-06-16T05:06:00.000+02:002006-06-16T05:06:00.000+02:00I was going to say the same thing as programmer!So...I was going to say the same thing as programmer!<BR/><BR/>Some guys just won't risk being rejected by a woman they are interested in.ChrisinMBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462562074295511462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19045277.post-1150044476793218862006-06-11T18:47:00.000+02:002006-06-11T18:47:00.000+02:00Hi Violet,That all looks like good commentary and ...Hi Violet,<BR/><BR/>That all looks like good commentary and advice except perhaps this one:<BR/><BR/><I>I will not go out with a man who has not asked me out first</I><BR/><BR/>That doesn't look like sound advice to me. A lot of guys are shy, cautious, lack confidence or may for some other reason, need some encouragement. There's nothing wrong with a woman asking a guy out... but if he says no (or makes some lame excuse) he's not interested. DOn't pursiue it :)<BR/><BR/>That's my take anyway.<BR/><BR/>The rest of it looked good.programmer craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17566950406349754166noreply@blogger.com